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Monday, 7 January 2013
Benefits of Being Polite...................3713
Benefits of Being Polite
We all believe in the philosophy that the essence of life is talking.
Communicating with o.s is as necessary as food. If we dont, we tend to
fall ill. Today people are rarely talking.
The art of
conversation has almost died down. People just usually sit and chat in
their office breaks about things that are not even worth thinking about.
Lets face it; we all are going towards doom where each one of us is
talking to pass/kill time. The art of using communication is no more
existing. People are concerned about others influence in their lives and
not about their influence in others life.
It is an
unbelievable thing that an effective communication through polite words
can have wonderful impact on you and others lives as well. You can win
the hearts of many people, climb the corporate ladder, have promotions
but not have wonderful relationship with people around you.
The path to a successful life comes thorough the stairs of politeness.
An act of politeness can do wonders that no monetary thing can do. Let
us go deep in the art of efficient speaking by these methods.
Talking about ideas and not people
Its truly said, great minds talk about ideas and small minds talk about
people. Politeness is an attitude of life. Talking about ideas
heightens your politeness towards innovations and stimulates your mind
too. This is effective for the speaker and the listener both. To start
talking about people you can breathe out all negative energies about
anyone: latest crush, which dress she wears, which perfume she uses, her
bad attitude. The idea is that everything you talk about people usually
comes negative. This develops a feeling of self love and comparison at
all means. You do not value your life as much as you do to others.
Using intellect instead of the tongue
Usually people chatter on at length not worrying about the impact it
would have on others. Since people are so occupied in themselves theyd
rather talk about themselves only. This instigates them to speak rubbish
endlessly. Have you ever thought how much of an impact we can have on
others by our words? By trying to use our brains before speaking, we
will save others sentiments and preserve a healthy relationship between
our near ones.
The one who usually
starts a gossip or backbiting about someone does not know that he is the
one to have the last laugh. People who start commenting and spreading
rumors about others usually end up in a muck of politics and bickering
about themselves from the other end. Such people should be avoided at
arm's length. Even listening to gossip is as harmful since the listener
had the power to listen to negative communication. This unhealthy
gossiping could have been stopped if the listener would have ignored the
Exchange of compliments
We should not
limit our compliment intake be restricted to our close relatives. People
like our helpers such as servants, cleaners, house maids are those on
whom we can count on. Speaking politely to them will ensure that your
day is made. They are the ones who offer your services to make your life
comfortable. So we should make endeavors to enrich their lives by
complimenting and praising them.
Look for positive things in negative people
We all have negative and positive sides. Nobody on this earth has a
squeaky clean nature. We all have flaws, however some people are
observed negatively by their rude behavior and we become very judgmental
about them putting them in the negative category. We should understand
that people who are rude have their own weaknesses. They do not choose
to be like that. Frustrations at work or domestic front make them act in
this behavior. Such people should be offered more help than others
comparatively. Talking politely with them will make a difference in
their lives and yours too.
Feel positive about you all the time
Quite often we do not realize that we subconsciously become negative.
Pent up emotions and unfulfilled desires make us behave rudely towards
others and emit negative radiations from the body. Thus we tend to
overreact and become rude and harsh to others in some or the other way.
This might demolish the social circle that we have. So politeness in the
hearts at all means will result in polite attitude.
is rested in your heart is bound to come out in the open some or the
other day. Make sure you have a prosperous life with a polite attitude
and selfless love. This will make you immortal in the hearts of millions
as people are going to remember for your polite words and not by your
A photographer once clicked a photograph of
ex-president of India, Dr. Kalam with a shawl placed on his shoulder.
After the photo shoot was over, the photographer rudely took off the
shawl and walked off. The President smiled. After being asked about his
composed behaviouir, he politely answered that maybe the photographer
needed the shawl more than he did, and continued his work.
People with big positions come and go but it is only their humble nature
that draws millions of people towards them. Their polite words filled
to the brim with modesty and love melt the hearts of even the rudest
amongst the crowd. By talking politely to all we can make an impact on