Smile Please !! Here I am with my Hindi Jokes and Chutkule. हिंदी चुटकुले और कार्टून्स
Monday, 31 December 2012
New Year thoughts...............158712
New Year thoughts...
Wishing all my friends and their family a very happy and prosperous new year!!!!!!
It’s easy to make our relationships more complicated than they are. Here are twelve simple reminders to help ourselves keep them on course.
All successful relationships require some work. – They don’t just
happen, or maintain themselves. They exist and thrive when the parties
involved take the risk of sharing what it is that’s going on in their
minds and hearts. Open communication and honesty is the key.
Most of the time you get what you put in. – If you want love, give
love. If you want friends, be friendly. If you’d like to feel
understood, try being more understanding. It’s a simple practice that
You shouldn’t have to fight for a spot in someone’s
life. – Never force someone to make a space in their life for you,
because if they know your worth, they will create one for you.
There is a purpose for everyone you meet. – Some people will test
you, some will use you, and some will teach you; but most importantly
some will bring out the best in you. Learn to see and accept the
differences between these people, and carry on accordingly.
We all change, and that’s okay. – Our needs change with time. When
someone says, “You’ve changed,” it’s not always a bad thing. Sometimes
it just means you stopped living your life their way. Don’t apologize
for it. Instead, be open and sincere, explain how you feel, and keep
doing what you know in your heart is right.
You are in full
control of your own happiness. – If your relationship with yourself
isn’t working, don’t expect your other relationships to be any
different. Nobody else in this world can make you happy. It’s
something you have to do on your own. And you have to create your own
happiness first before you can share it with someone else. If you feel
that it’s your partner’s fault, think again, and look within yourself to
find out what piece is missing. Your partner can never ‘complete’ you
because you are already whole. The longing for completion that you feel
inside comes from being out of touch with who you are.
Forgiving others helps YOU. – Forgiveness is not saying, “What you did
to me is okay.” It is saying, “I’m not going to let what you did to me
ruin my happiness forever.” Forgiveness is the answer. It doesn’t mean
you’re erasing the past, or forgetting what happened. It means you’re
letting go of the resentment and pain, and instead choosing to learn
from the incident and move on with your life.
change people; they can only change themselves. – Instead of trying to
change others, give them your support and lead by example. If there’s a
specific behavior someone you love has that you’re hoping disappears
over time, it probably won’t. If you really need them to change
something, be honest and put all the cards on the table so this person
knows what you need them to do.
Heated arguments are a
waste of time. – The less time you spend arguing with the people who
hurt you, the more time you’ll have to love the people who love you.
And if you happen to find yourself arguing with someone you love, don’t
let your anger get the best of you. Give yourself some time to calm
down and then gently discuss the situation.
You are better
off without some people. – When you have to start compromising yourself
and your morals for the people around you, it’s probably time to change
the people around you. If someone continuously mistreats you or pushes
you in the wrong direction, have enough respect for yourself to walk
away from them. It may hurt for a little while, but it’ll be ok. You’ll
be ok, and far better off in the long run.
of kindness go a long way. – Honor your important relationships in some
way every chance you get. Every day you have the opportunity to make
your relationship sweeter and deeper by making small gestures to show
your appreciation and affection. Remember, making one person smile can
change the world. Maybe not the whole world, but their world. Your
kindness and gratitude matters.
Even the best relationships
don’t last forever. – People don’t live forever. Appreciate what you
have, who loves you and who cares for you. You’ll never know how much
they mean to you until the day they are no longer beside you. And
remember, just because something doesn’t last forever, doesn’t mean it
wasn’t worth your while.